RELATIONSHIP AND LOVE
‘RELATIONSHIP’ and ‘LOVE’, They are two different perspective ‘but are interwoven all the time.
MEANING OF A RELATIONSHIP AND LOVE
* Relationship: This is when two people are in a sort of connection or when they are connected or it is also an agreement between a girl and a guy bonded by love.
Relationship varies depending on the agreement, every relationship has its own condition but a divine relationship agreement is base on the love they both have for each other, whereby they both share the same feelings. Some relationship are for different purpose, people go into a relationship for:
• Pleasure
• Wealth
• Reputation
• Marriage and so on.
As I have said earlier, people have many reason or agreement in a relationship, if you are in any relationship try to know the agreement on your own because when you ask the guy or lady, he/she might lie, so figure it out.
* Love: This is a four letter word but extremely powerful, it has different meaning according to different people but when this four letter sets between two individuals, its like a flowing stream.
MEANING OF LOVE
Like I have said earlier, ‘LOVE’ connotes different meaning depending on the understanding or perspective of people. According to my definition, I see ‘LOVE’ as a deep, tender feeling of affection towards a person such that arises from the recognition of some undisputed qualities.
Love is also an intense feelings or desire and attraction towards a person with whom one is disposed to make a partner, it also a strong predilection or enthusiasm.
Furthermore, 'love is an unwanted plant planted unknowingly but nurtured with trust, its have conquered all men and all men have fallen victims'.
I was fortunate to see a wallpaper which says ‘ love is crazy, pain, hopeless, stupid’, I was short of words. Without love, there is no life but I know some of you might disagree with me, maybe as a result of your past experience and that’s why am here to explain some certain things
THE PRESENT SITUATION CONCERNING LOVE
In our present societal situation in term of the four lettered word called ‘LOVE’. It has led many people astray, ladies encountering with the wrong men while the men encountering with the wrong ladies.
Moreover, the reason why love exist is not for bad but for good, we human beings has changed it for our personal interest for example you are handsome and you don’t love this lady but because of your sexual interest, you then deceive the girl that you love her just to take advantage of her. As a lady you don’t love a guy but because of your selfish interest, you pretend like you love him and that leads to the abuse of love.
Love is full of challenges but we fail to understand that, you might be in a relationship but there is a time whereby the storm of love will set in, just to shake the both of you but the fittest will survive. I have noticed that in our present age, girls are mostly cheated and some few guys because of the selfish act of some individual from both gender. I had a one on one interaction with a lady at a seminar. She said ladies are revenging on the genuine guys because of what the bad guys did to them or their friends, she further told me, that why is it that ladies always say that ‘GUYS ARE All THE SAME’ maybe as a result of their past experience or from what their friends had encountered and they are afraid to allow it happen to them, she then said that the blame is not only on the guys alone but the ladies also had some fault.
Nowadays, 80% of guys lie all in the name of wooing a girl, well am not siding the ladies because most ladies are not contended with what they have, most of them are after goodies, money and so on. I was in a luxurious bus, a guy was sitting beside me then a lady the other side. The guy said meeting the girl for the first time
Guy: hello whats up, how u doing
Girl: am good
Guy: well am Fred by the way and you
Girl: Anita
Guy: you are so beautiful and you remind me of my mom.
Girl: really
Guy: yeah immediately I saw you, the electron was moving through me, I could feel it and the lady was like oh my God ‘really’ before I alighted from the bus.
I was shocked, please if anybody should come and tell you that God/electron/spirit said this and this (both male and female), confirm it by praying to God for confirmation. Some people are even worse than that because they believe what they hear or listen to.
Nevertheless, you might be passing through difficulties in term of who you want to love or date, try to be vigilant and always be calm, don’t jump into anything without having an assurance that there is love (genuine) between the two parties.
This where I will stop today, thank you very much for reading, we will continue on my next write up concerning :
• symptoms of true love
• How to know the agreement or reason of your relationship (pleasure, marriage, and so on) and I will tell you some of my relationship stories and from some experts. If you have anything to share or anything, you can contact us through chemdaha@gmail.com and kindly share your views, thanks.
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